Sep 1, 2010

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Dance ’til you Feel Better

It’s been a while since a good Hollywood post, and there’s no stopping it this week. The Emmys happened Sunday night. And from the moment Jimmy Fallon met up with the cast of Glee and opened the show with a musical number complete with matching costumes and dancing in silhouette, I turned to Michael and said, “I’m so happy.”

Do you know the line in Music and Lyrics when Drew Barrymore’s character has just inadvertently dissed Hugh Grant’s character with a reference to how a “Pop song isn’t likely to impress” her ex-boyfriend? And Hugh Grant says, sure, it’s not great literature maybe, but nothing “makes people feel as good as fast as ‘I got sunshine, on a cloudy day.’”

It’s true. And nothing makes me as happy as fast as a good show-stopping musical number. When it was over, I applauded. Because I’ve done just enough singing and dancing in my life to know that stuff takes work, and I felt so thankful that they’d done the work and passed on the happy.

Then Monday came and with it the announcement for the new contestants on Dancing with the Stars. And I haven’t gotten excited about that cast in a couple years now, but this one made me very, very happy. Mostly because, it includes Jennifer Grey.

Dirty Dancing is one of the shows I watch pretty much any time I catch it on Cable. And if it happens to be at the final number, all the better. I’ve got “I had the time of my life” on my ipod, and when Dancing with the Stars did a Patrick Swayze tribute last year, I was beside myself. And as if just having Baby herself on the show wasn’t enough to thrill me, they paired her with Derek Hough. I like many of the professionals on DWTS, but he’s my favorite. As far as my world is concerned – and my Monday and Tuesday nights – Dancing is back.

Now, some of my friends and family members insist that I should also be watching So You Think You Can Dance. And I always intend to. But I know it will be missing two elements I really love about DWTS. One is the proven effectiveness of cross-pollenating your brand. So many times on DWTS, I haven’t even known the people who were cast. They were in fields (such as comedy, sports, the Disney Channel, or Reality TV) that I just wasn’t familiar with. Sometimes I didn’t like my first impression of them either. But then as they worked their butt off and showed us their vulnerability and their human-ness and their relatable thoughts, I came to like them. I cared that they existed, and I didn’t (always) want to see them go.

And speaking of working their butt off, that’s the other thing I love about this show. It’s the if-I-can-do-it-you-can factor. I love how often we actually watch people improve – right before our eyes. We see them struggle with the steps, feel embarrassed (I hate that part), get criticized (I really hate that part), and then get better. It’s a beautiful thing. A good dance can bring Carrie Inaba to tears, and I totally understand why. It tells a story. And sometimes it’s not a fictional one, and it’s not the story of a dance. It’s the story of a dancer, a person who wasn’t sure they could, a couple that fought and struggled through rehearsal but stayed persistent, or a person who’s been seen in every light but good, and then the work pays off and the couple comes together, and the person rises above, and it all comes together for the beautiful, inspiring end. And suddenly hard work seems so worth it, and very little seems too hard to overcome.

A cancer survivor once said that she dances every single day. She was definitely onto something.

(Photo by Xanda on Flickr.)

  1. Wow. You’d better put me in the corner.

    This post was almost written in another language for me!

    But I do know Baby. I had to sneak over to a friend’s house to watch “Dirty Dancing” on video because my parents were too strict. I’m still obsessed with it.

  2. I know, when I wrote this I was thinking – most of my readers will probably be like “Eh?” I don’t know of anyone close to me who loves this show. Lori F., don’t you watch maybe?? Somebody give me an amen…. :)

  3. Ha! When I read your tweet about the pairing yesterday I just laughed and laughed. Then I tried to figure out a way to do a clever re-tweet, like with your tweet and then those double forward slashes and my comment along the lines of “not only did I not know about this announcement, I also can’t imagine using happy to describe my feelings about it”. : )

    We weren’t allowed to watch Dirty Dancing either, of course. I’ve only seen it since coming into control of my own television. : )

  4. I’m so glad Felicity made it clear that we did not allow our teenagers to watch Dirty Dancing :)

    And, yeah, this was pretty much Martian to me. Except the part about a great dance number making you happy. I grew up with a slightly different genre of variety shows, (like Lawrence Welk) but I do get that.
    love,
    mom

  5. I vaguely hate to break it to you, girls, but I’m pretty sure the first time I saw this movie was the later high school years. It was on television, and you gave us permission to watch it there because we were extremely mature and discerning by that time, ;), and it would of course be toned down for tv. I’ve never seen the non-television version, now that I think about it. But cable probably tones it down less than the networks did back in the day. And I know I’m not the ONLY person who watches Dancing with the Stars. It’s in the eleventh season!

  6. Sarah Dunn says:

    Serenity,
    I am totally and completely with you. I Love DWTS and I am so looking forward to seeing Derek and Jennifer. Don’t feel bad about the “So You Think You Can Dance.” I can’t even get into it. On Mondays and Tuesdays, pretend I am sitting right beside you in the happy!

  7. Sarah Dunn, you rock.

  8. There’s a Twitter campaign to get some authors on DWTS. Have you seen it? I’m super excited that Jennifer Grey is on this season. I *may* even watch on a regular basis just for that reason. I manage to watch a few episodes every season, just so I know what everyone is talking about. So this post made perfect sense :)

  9. This whole conversation just makes me smile! I loved Dirty Dancing (all except the actual title) and my favorite movie of all time (until Blind Side came out) was Pretty Woman. Dan used to love to give me a hard time about it. He knew nothing would get me on my soapbox faster than someone saying it was just a racy movie about prostitutes. The movie didn’t bother him any… he just loved to watch me react. It always ended with me saying something like, “Anyone who can’t see any deeper than that when they watch this movie is worse than a pharisee!” LOL

  10. Ha! Tracy, you go. It’s a soapbox I get on quite often too, though I try and restrain it to my home, because I can’t actually bring myself to demand someone watch something that makes them uncomfortable. It’s not Pretty Woman for me, but just the general idea of complaining about a film for its hook rather than considering the story it might tell and what we can take from it. My soapbox is that people’s lives are usually quite messy too, and I wouldn’t want to be too protective to let them in.

  11. “I carried a watermelon”

    I live inside movie quotes. Prepare to be shocked, I don’t watch DWTS. But guess who just inspired me to give it a whirl…..=)

  12. I say, “I carried a watermelon” when applicable every single summer, without fail. I also say, “Nobody puts Baby in the corner” whenever I get the chance. And I have the whole soundtrack on my iPod. I sing all the songs when I hear them. I cannot help myself. It’s classic. Or historic. Or at least iconic. Love this post.

  13. I realize that I am about 28 days late in reading this, but anything that has the word dance in the title is bound to get my attention at some point! I agree whole heartedly that dancing is something everyone should do at least once every day, even if its only a chasse across the isle at walmart and a small ponche while reaching for that jar of peanut butter. So with that I leave you with one of my favorite dance quotes …

    “There are short-cuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them.” -Vicki Baum

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