Today’s Tag from the Good Girls is – What do you like and dislike about yourself, so – after sorting through the numerous options . . .
Are you familiar with Chicken Joe from Surf’s Up? I adored this character. I loved how completey unfazed he was by absolutely everything. Native islanders throw him in a pot of boiling water, and he thinks he’s being treated to a soak in a jakuzzi. They add vegetables. He thinks he’s been handed some dinner. They do the chicken soup dance around him. He says, “Cool. Dinner and a show.” The whole movie of Surf’s Up is about how deeply the penguin cares about himself and his surfing dream and his ultimate life-affirming destiny. Chicken Joe is the lovely, humorous antithesis to such self-absorbed introspection. And it’s not like he’s actually indifferent to life. He really does love to surf. But when it comes time for the big competition, he’s like, “Dude, I don’t even know where my board is – I gotta go find it. ”
So what I dislike most about myself is how little I resemble Chicken Joe. I’m way too introspective (i.e., self-absorbed) about life and my place in it. Almost nothing rolls off my back, and if you throw me in a pot of boiling water and add some vegetables, I will cry and fuss and scream and later ask everyone I know why this might have happened, what I could have done differently, and whether or not they think I would have at least tasted good.
What I like about myself is, I can learn. I think it’s one of the best qualities of being a human at all. I dislike the emotions and self-absorption of how deeply I take things in. But I like that I do take them in and try to learn from them and hopefully sometimes do. If I hurt your feelings – even if you don’t tell me so, I will probably realize it later and not do it (at least in that same way) ever again. If I speak too loudly or too quickly or too much, I usually recognize it and deal with myself.
So, as seems to be the theme for the day, my like and dislike are kind of different sides of the exact same thing. That’s how strengths and weaknesses go, I’ve been told.
Oh and dude, spoiler ahead if you haven’t seen it, but Chicken Joe totally wins the surfing competition. And I totally took that in.